I am finally back after a long break owing to professional and personal commitments. 😊
Hoping to be more consistent going forward.
This break has also helped me think through a lot of aspects- starting with ‘Are we being the good role models for our kids’?
To start with what do we really mean by a role model? Of course it will have different connotations for each one but by and large I think we agree that children have to be kids, empathetic, follow instructions and so on – you get the drift
I was a believer of the same but I strongly believe that being empathetic,kind is good but they should not be naive and should be able to fight back when needed.
It is important to stand up for oneself in all circumstances. We do realise that as adults but it’s probably a good idea to get kids to start this early on from the time that they start realising the difference between acceptable and unacceptable behavior.
Additionally I feel it’s important to let kids be as they are and not have to conform to every so called acceptable social behavior (doesn’t mean they can be rude and impolite)
We are humans and are individually different from each other which is the beauty and makes for the variety in society. Else we would have been clones. Why are we hesitant to let our kids be different in a social context? I think it’s possibly because we are scared of the judgement meted out to us as a fallout of our kids behavior.
Do let me know your thoughts on the same😊
More on mommy judgements in my next article 😊
Ciao!!